A Man Who Would Follow the World Must First of All Be a Judge of Moods…, Essays in Idleness, #155
A man who would follow the world must first of all be a judge of moods, for untimely speeches will offend the ears and hurt the feelings of others, and so fail in their purpose. He has to beware of such occasions.
But falling sick, and bearing children, and dying - these things alone take no account of moods. They do not cease because they are untimely. The shifting change of birth, life, sickness and death, the real great matters, is like the surging flow of a fierce torrent. It delays not for an instant, but straightway pursues its course.
And so, for both priest and layman, there must be no talk of moods in things they must needs accomplish. They must be free from this care and that, they must not let their feet linger.
It does not turn to summer after spring has closed, nor does the fall come when the summer ends. The spring betimes puts on a summer air, already in the summer is the fall abroad, and anon the fall grows cold. In the tenth month comes a brief space of spring weather. Grass grows green, plum blossoms bud. So with the falling of leaves from the trees. It is not that the trees bud once the leaves have fallen, but, because they are budding from beneath, the leaves unable to withstand the strain perforce must fall. An onward-urging influence is at work within, so that stage presses on stage with exceeding haste.
This again is exceeded by the changes of birth, age, sickness and death. The four seasons have still an appointed order. The hour of death waits for no order. Death does not even come from the front. It is ever pressing on from behind. All men know of death, but they do not expect it of a sudden, and it comes upon them unawares. So, though the dry flats extend far out, anon the tide comes and floods the strand.
It was he who, taking shelter from the rain in the gateway of the Toji temple where a number of cripples were assembled, and seeing that they were all deformed in various ways, some with arms and legs bent, some twisted, some turned backward, thought to himself, ‘They are, every one, singular freaks, By all means, they must be cherished.’ But as he gazed at them, soon the feeling of interest wore off, and he began to find them ugly and loathsome, and thought, ‘There is nothing like that which is simple and ordinary.’ When he returned home, though hitherto he had been fond of dwarf trees in pots, and used to seek those out that were strangely bent and twisted to rejoice his eyes, he now felt that their charm was gone, that it was like being fond of yonder cripples, so he pulled up and threw away all his trees that were planted in pots. This must have been the case. 